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Adult and casual dating affiliate programThey come for her.

211 prelanders for casual and adult dating traffic: 153 open to see right here, 58 after approval.

  • $3 to $8 first payment
  • $20 to $60 if he pays three times
  • $2 to $4 SOI
  • $3 to $6 DOI, CPL
  • 14 days default hold
  • US men 30+

69 lit for this source, our starting point, not performance data. Tap one and play a sample. Blurred ones open after approval.

Photo from a prelander demo

Sample mechanic, strip-poker

Pick a card. Win, and something comes off.

Straight to it, then.

AffJoy is a dating affiliate program that shows you everything before signup.

It is a direct CPA program on our own dating platforms, not a network of third-party offers. You send casual and adult dating traffic from the US, men 30+. You earn per signup, per confirmed lead or per paying user. The prelander library, the rates and the rules are on this page, including what we do not have yet.

$3 to $8CPA, first payment. $20 to $60 if he pays three times
$2 to $4SOI per qualified signup
$3 to $6DOI and CPL per confirmed lead
14 daysDefault hold, set per offer, shown in your portal
$50Draft minimum by PayPal or USDT, $500 by wire
211Checked against the registry, 10 mechanics

Rates are drafts until confirmed to you in writing.

When do I get paid?Can you take it back?Will my tracker work?Is my traffic allowed?What is missing?

Ten ways to get a yes.

211 prelanders across 10 mechanics, public before you sign up.

Many programs tell you to ask a manager what they have. Ours is right here. Shortlist what fits your traffic and we set up an offer for it. Each one sits behind the same signup, so results stay comparable.

66 prelanders

Step-by-step reveal

Every tap, a little more.Start with adult sites
26 prelanders

Invitation stories

Her place, nine o’clock.Start with native
24 prelanders

Chat and messages

She writes first.Start with push and in-page
22 prelanders

Fast age and yes-or-no

Two taps and he is in.Start with pop
18 prelanders

Private photos and swaps

She sends first.Start with adult sites
17 prelanders

Pick and swipe

He chooses. She was looking.Start with pop
16 prelanders

Games and machines

He plays to win.Start with in-page
12 prelanders

Feeds and profiles

Her stories. He keeps watching.Start with native
5 prelanders

Sign-up and catalog

For traffic that is ready.Start with SEO and email
5 prelanders

Discreet rules

What happens here stays here.Start with email

Fit notes are our starting points, not statistics.

See the full library

One night, one click.

From click to available money, step by step.

Every step below is an event you can receive in your own tracker.

Woman in a dark robe on a sofa at night

9:02 pm

Your moneyNothing yet

Still up?

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He clicks your ad.

The click is stored with every parameter you pass, so your sub IDs come back to you.

{click.queryParams.sub1}
Woman in a pale blue dress

9:03 pm

Your moneyNothing yet

Pick a card.

Prelander demo

The prelander warms him up.

Each click records which prelander it saw. We report it on request while there is no portal view.

prelander recorded per click
Woman on a bed with a mug, blowing a kiss

9:06 pm

On SOI, on hold$2 to $4

Now tell me your name.

Prelander demo

He signs up.

Your postback fires with the event and the money it books.

REGISTRATION
Woman lying on white pillows

9:11 pm

On DOI or CPL, on hold$3 to $6

Check your inbox.

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He confirms his email.

This is the event DOI and CPL pay on.

EMAIL_CONFIRMED
Woman on a sofa in a black top, blowing a kiss

9:40 pm

On CPA, on hold$3 to $8

It’s worth it.

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He makes his first payment.

Packs run from $19.49 to $199, with one-time offers from $1.99. What qualifies as a paid first payment is set per offer and confirmed in writing before you start.

FIRST_DEPOSIT
Champagne and fruit on a counter

Next nights

On CPA, if he pays three times$20 to $60

You came back.

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Some pay again, and again.

Second payment $7 to $20, third $10 to $32. Many users never get this far, so model your own rate below.

SECOND_DEPOSIT, THIRD_DEPOSIT
Woman in a red bodysuit beside champagne

Day 14

First payment unlocksAvailable

Worth the wait?

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The first payment leaves hold.

Your portal moves it from On hold to Available. Your tracker already knows the date.

{clickPrice.unlockAt}

Still reading? We like that.

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Do the maths, then decide.

SOI, DOI, CPL or CPA: what each one pays on your traffic.

Change the assumptions to your own numbers. Everything is calculated at the low end of our draft rates. It is an estimate, not a promise. How the models compare.

RevShare is by agreement and handled by hand. The portal does not calculate it yet.

Your cut, 30 days

$4,200

$2 per signup at the low end. Estimate from your inputs.

Spend$1,500
Left after spend$2,700
Modeled EPC$0.028

Your tracker rings when she does.

Server postbacks with 7 triggers, a test send and a delivery log.

The portal has no CR or EPC report yet, so bring your tracker. It gets each event, the money and the unlock date. Any click parameter you pass is stored and comes back to you. Postback setup and tracker templates.

Delivery3 attempts: at once, after 5 minutes, after 30 minutes, each logged.
DuplicatesOne payment per conversion and rule.
Late eventsServer events older than 24 hours are dropped.
RejectionsNot sent to your tracker today. Check Clicks in the portal.

Tap a macro to add it

https://your-tracker.example/postback?p1={click.clickId}&p2={event.type}&p3={clickPrice.amount}

Triggers: REGISTRATION, EMAIL_CONFIRMED, DEPOSIT, FIRST_DEPOSIT, SECOND_DEPOSIT, THIRD_DEPOSIT, CLICK_PAID

Worth the wait.

Each payment holds for 14 days by default, then becomes available.

The hold is set per offer and shown in your portal, with an unlock date on every payment. A person issues payouts from your available balance. Your manager confirms the day and method in writing. We do not promise a weekly schedule until it is committed.

Day 0: on holdDay 14: available

MethodDraft minimum
PayPal$50
USDT$50
Wire$500

Read this before you fall for me.

The rules, published before you sign up.

This is how it works today, in plain English. The agreement you sign decides if they ever differ.

Who rejects a lead?

A person, not a score. There is no automatic fraud rejection. When a reason is entered, it shows on the click.

Can you take money back?

Today, yes. A rejection has no time limit, and a rejected paid click nets against your future earnings. When we set a window, it goes here.

What can freeze my balance?

Under the program terms, fraud or a policy violation can cost pending and approved balances, and an investigation can extend a hold. Read the agreement before you send traffic.

Whose numbers count?

Our records decide disputes. Your click detail shows every event, payment and requirement, so you can compare them with your tracker at any time.

Can rates change?

Yes, with 48 hours’ notice. Your rate is agreed in writing before you send traffic.

Self-purchases and chargebacks?

Buying through your own link is fraud. Chargebacks are not linked to payouts automatically. They are handled by manual rejection, as above.

Tell me where you found him.

Which traffic is allowed, and which needs approval first.

Adult and pop are welcome. Get written approval first. The same goes for your own creatives and landers.

Allowed

  • Native
  • Push
  • SEO
  • Opt-in email
  • Display

Ask first

  • Pop and popunder
  • Adult sites and tube traffic
  • In-app
  • Social
  • Your own prelander or domain

Never

  • Anything that suggests minors or lack of consent
  • Incentivized clicks
  • Brand bidding
  • Spam, bots, stolen traffic
  • Fake system alerts in your creatives

The rest stays behind the door.

128 sets

A bolder photo set for approved partners.

Nothing bolder lives on this page. After written approval, the bolder set can be switched on for your offer.

Get approved

Don’t take my word for it.

What you can check for yourself.

+87

New prelanders from Oct 27 to Nov 3, from our release history.

  1. Oct 27+33
  2. Oct 28+10
  3. Oct 29+10
  4. Oct 30+11
  5. Nov 1+12
  6. Nov 3+11

AffJoy is a new program, so there is no public payout history yet. Ask for a small test and check every event on your own tracker.

Nobody is perfect. Least of all us.

What we do not have yet, and how we compare.

No statistics dashboard

The portal shows balances and each click. Use your tracker for CR and EPC.

No partner API

Postbacks and the Telegram daily report cover most of it.

No prelander choice in the portal

Send a shortlist, we set up the offer and report on request.

No RevShare in the portal

By agreement, calculated by hand.

No rejection postback

Rejections show on the click, not in your tracker.

No published CR or EPC

We publish when we have numbers we can stand behind.

QuestionOn the program pages we readAffJoy
See prelanders before signupOften: ask a managerOn this page
Rejection and freeze rulesOften not on the pageOn this page
What is missingRarely mentionedListed above
Offer rangeHundreds of third-party offersOur own dating platforms
Stats dashboardUsually includedNot yet, bring a tracker

Let me show you how it starts.

How to start.

  1. 1

    Apply

    Email, source, volume. A person reads it.

  2. 2

    Get your rate

    In writing, with your offer and shortlist.

  3. 3

    Connect

    Set the postback in the portal and use the test send.

  4. 4

    Send a small test

    No minimum in the system. Agree the size with your manager.

All that is left is the click.

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Go on, ask.

Questions buyers ask first.

What is AffJoy?

An affiliate program for casual and adult dating traffic from the US, men 30+, launched in November 2026. It pays per signup, per confirmed lead or per paying user. Its prelander library, draft rates and rules are public before signup.

Is AffJoy legit?

Judge it on evidence. It is a new program with no public payout history or independent reviews yet, and rates stay drafts until confirmed in writing. Ask for your agreement, send a small test and check every event on your own tracker before you scale.

Who runs AffJoy?

The company you contract with is named in the agreement you receive before you send traffic. We will publish it on the About page once it is confirmed.

Older pages describe affjoy.com differently. Why?

This domain had other uses before November 2026, including blogs, a resource directory and an earlier network using the same name. Their rates, terms, reviews and contacts do not describe this program.

Is AffJoy the same as AppJoy, Affoy Media or Affmy?

No. Those are different names and different businesses. Terms you find under those names do not apply here.

Do you pay if an advertiser pays late?

Offers run on our own dating platforms, so no outside advertiser sits between you and a payout.

Can you give me a reference from a current partner?

Not yet. The program is new and we do not publish testimonials we cannot stand behind. A small test on your own tracker is the better check for now.

How long is the attribution window?

Draft: 30 days from the first click, confirmed in writing before you start.

Can I see why a lead was rejected?

When a reason is entered, it shows on the click in your portal. There is no rejection postback yet, so your tracker will not receive it.

What does AffJoy pay?

Draft rates: $3 to $8 on the first payment and $20 to $60 if a user pays three times on CPA, $2 to $4 on SOI, $3 to $6 on DOI and CPL. Your rate is agreed in writing before traffic starts.

When do I get paid?

Each payment holds for 14 days by default, set per offer, then becomes available. Payouts are issued by a person from your available balance. Your manager confirms the day and method in writing.

Is it weekly from the first payout?

We do not promise that yet. Payouts are issued by hand and the schedule is agreed with you.

Can you take money back after the hold?

Today, yes. A rejection has no time limit and nets against future earnings.

Will you shave my leads?

Rejections are manual and show on the click. Compare your tracker with Clicks in the portal at any time.

Does it convert?

We do not publish CR or EPC yet. Run a small test and judge on your own tracker.

Can I see stats per prelander?

Not in the portal yet. Each click records its prelander and we can report on request.

Can I pick my prelander?

Send a shortlist. We set up the offer and can split traffic by weight.

Can I use my own prelander or domain?

Yes, after approval.

Which trackers work?

Any tracker that accepts a server postback. Set your template in the portal and use the test send.

Which traffic do you accept?

See the three lists on this page. Adult and pop traffic need written approval first.

Which countries?

US, men 30+. Other countries are not available today.

Is there a cap?

No cap is enforced automatically, which is not a promise of unlimited volume.

Is there a minimum volume?

No minimum in the system. Agree the test size with your manager.

Do you offer RevShare?

By agreement and handled by hand. The portal does not calculate it yet.

What happens with chargebacks?

They are not linked to payouts automatically. They are handled by manual rejection.

Can I get the bolder photo set?

After written approval, offer by offer.

Are postbacks retried?

Yes. Three attempts: at once, after 5 minutes and after 30 minutes, each logged. Server events older than 24 hours are dropped.

What is the minimum payout?

Draft minimums: $50 by PayPal or USDT, $500 by wire, confirmed in writing.

Do you have an API?

Not yet. Postbacks and a Telegram daily report are available.

Bring the traffic.
The prelander takes it
from there.

Add prelanders to your shortlist above, or let us suggest a first set.

A person reads every application and writes back with your rate and offer.